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A Church You Have To See

There are some churches that just know what they are doing. They truly know how to appeal to the community.

The Journey Church NYC is one of those churches. As soon as you check out their website you will know what I mean. The Journey is a casual, contemporary, Christian church with four campuses in metro New York City and two conveniently located in Manhattan.  If you are looking for a church in Manhattan near the Upper West Side, Upper East Side, Village, Union Square, Midtown, and Downtown areas – The Journey is a great church to look at for options in New York City. If you are looking for churches in NYC, then the Journey Church NYC is the place for you!

They have their act together, and they are very creative. Visit them at http://www.journeymetro.com/, or just have a look at this screenshot. My friend Tony Morgan found this earlier.

 

Ninja Night and then some…

I am not even playin’ when I say life is rockin’ and rollin’ right now! We are planning for Community Makeover at Engage Atlanta. At West Ridge we are starting a New Series Called Make War, getting ready for Last Saturday (April 30th), and partnering with others to try and serve families impacted by storms in the Southeast. That’s just the tip of the iceberg folks! Did I mention I’m getting up at 4AM to watch a wedding with my wife of two people I will never even meet!

I would invite you to click on all the links above and get in the game!

With all of that said you may be wondering, “Where can you find calm in the storms of life?” I have two words for you, Ninja Night!

Straight up! My kids want to be ninjas, and I think that would be cool. I don’t know anyone who can claim that their kids are ninjas. I can’t either, but we are on our way. The last Friday night of every month is Ninja Night at Breakthrough Martial Arts. This is the best Tae Kwon Do instruction on the planet. Mr Jerrod Hicks and his staff are phenomenal with kids. Our kids confidence and strength has been raised from being a part.

Ninja Night is four hours of the best childcare you will find. It is the last Friday of every month from 6:00-10:30 (April 29th this time around). It is $20 per child. They feed your kids, and plan activities for all 4 and half hours. You don’t have to be members to participate in Ninja Night.

They are incredible! My kids ask to go to this, and it gives me time with my awesome wife!

We really like these people, so I am giving them a shout out! I’ll remind you again next time around. Call them and let them know your kids are coming so that they can prepare. The number is 678-333-6949.

By the way, Jerrod teaches the Martial Arts portion of SURGE Camp. The sports and arts camp that the KidQuest Ministry does at West Ridge Church every Summer. Brent Moxey pulls together an amazing group of volunteers from our church and community to make this happen. More on that later.

Be honest. It would be really cool if your kids were ninjas.

Paul

Layups and Free Throws

There is nothing more thrilling for a short, white guy (such as myself) that can’t dunk a basketball than a breakaway layup. It’s an exhilarating moment where your brain pictures you jumping higher than you actually are, and looking way more graceful than what people are actually watching. It makes no difference, it’s still a great feeling!

Over the weekend we had Easter Sunday, 2011! It was an absolute layup for churches all over the Southeast. I think every tweeting and facebooking Pastor said the same thing, “This was our highest attendance ever!” This is a tremendous show of humility for Senior Pastors who think using actual numbers makes them look prideful. :)  It’s a great feeling to have this kind of win under your belt. Let’s be honest, Easter Sunday in America should be a layup for your church. People who are ‘unchurched’ or ‘de-churched’ are open to attend Easter Sunday. Since God’s word never returns void, getting as many folks in the door and hearing the resurrection story as possible is a huge part of spreading the Kingdom. I hope you nailed it, and that your church got to be a part of a great harvest for the family of God.

The second easiest shot for short, white people in basketball is supposed to be a free throw. However, it doesn’t seem to always happen that way. The key to shooting free throws at a high percentage is pretty simple, do the same thing every time you step to the line. Dribble the ball the same amount of times in the same cadence every time. Hold the ball for the same amount of time. Look at the same part of the basket you always do. Do everything the same way in the same order every time. If you do that your percentage will go up, guaranteed. You can be the most amazing, lead-footed, free throw shooter in your rec league. How is this possible?

I think my friend Tony Morgan would say it this way, ‘Systems create behavior’. So here’s an Easter question; What system do you have in place for following up with people after Easter? If you have something in place to follow up with people after the biggest event of your week, which for every church should be Sunday, your percentage of success should slowly go up every time.

Here are a couple of rules for bringing up your percentage:

Every Day Counts – If you can follow up within 24 hours you will most likely see that person again. At 48 and 72 hours you still have a good opportunity to build a relationship with some new folks. After that, go ahead and put a message out to other churches that ‘The Smith’s’ are looking for a church, and you decided not to call them back.

Make It Personal – Emails are great. A form letter from the Senior Pastor is about as cool as it sounds, but voice to voice contact still seems to work best. Even if you just leave a voicemail that says, ‘Thanks for coming’, you’ve done more than a lot of people do. Actual conversations can lead to way more ministry than an auto call or a ‘do not reply to this address‘ email.

Fear Not – Lots of thoughts may go through your head about not wanting to call at the wrong time or spamming people. Get over it! Lots of organizations far less important that the local church will call and email people mercilessly to get them in the fold.

A Reason To Return – People need to know that you are going to be teaching something out of God’s word that’s going to impact their lives and their families. Don’t let ‘em think Easter is the only bullet you have in your gun. At West Ridge, we told people that this Sunday we are going to Make War! You can go here to check that out!

My hope is that after ‘The Biggest Sunday Ever Told’ we can see church attendance trend up, greater growth for disciples no matter where they are in their journey, and communities being impacted by God’s love on an enormous scale.

Everyone Belongs,

Paul

Throwing Rocks At The Bride

I was at Catalyst Conference in 2007 when Rick Warren walked out on stage, and one of the first things out of his mouth was about comments he was hearing like these: “I love Jesus, I just don’t like his body.” Pastor Rick suggested that this statement is the same as someone saying, “I love you, I just don’t like your wife.”

I’m a little sensitive to this I know. I have seen the Church (The Bride of Christ) do some beautiful things when they come together in unity. Through the Community Makeover I’ve had the privilege to lead for Engage Atlanta I’ve seen multiple denominations, and ethnicity, serve side by side and watched the kindness of God lead people to repentance, and build the community.

Lately, there’s not a more cannibalistic tribe on the planet than the American Church. We criticize Pastors we’ve never listened to, and books we’ve never read. Churches take shots at each others Easter Egg hunts and their method of making them happen. We conveniently time blog post on morality alongside the moral failures of Christian leaders instead of going to them privately to offer encouragement and help in restoration. You can recruit volunteers to paint faces at the local school spring fling, or paint over graffiti in an urban setting. Either way, to the opposite party, you are most likely an idiot. That’s just how it feels lately.

People throw rocks at the bride on twitter and facebook to try and gain more following, all the while hoping their stone lands the death blow so the rest of the vultures can circle. If you have a problem with the Bride, take it up with the Groom. We need to pray for the Bride. She needs all the love and support she can get.

The culture of our churches has to change. We need to do less to split and more to mend. When we do I believe every church that is doing the thing God has led them to do to reach their community, and joining together in love and unity with others, will grow and thrive as individual congregations, and God’s Kingdom will rise in total.

Maybe I’m throwing rocks at the rock-throwers, I’m not sure. But don’t be cynical. Don’t throw rocks at the bride. Don’t be that guy.

Everyone Belongs,

Paul

Holy Undershirts!

Recently I got to sit down with some non-profits that are doing some incredible work all over the world. Of course, when I hear of someone doing something in West Africa, my ears perk up, the hairs stand up on the back of my neck, and I get all fuzzy inside. That’s how I felt when I heard about Sababu.

Sababu Conscious Clothing is dedicated to helping the people of Mali in West Africa by providing a sustainable employment opportunity. Each shirt that they make has a number on it that identifies who made the shirt that you purchase.  So you buy a shirt, get your number, go to their website and find out exactly who you just helped have a job. It’s a beautiful idea.

We have a great Engage Atlanta Community Makeover shirt being designed by Sababu. I would encourage others to use them for their events as well. Call them for pricing. They are really competitive when they are working with quantities for youth groups, special events, and things like that.

Right now they have a special promotion going called The Undershirt Club where you can get three new undershirts every three months. It’s a great deal. You can cancel anytime. Just click on the graphic on the right to fund out more.

It’s time to refresh those hole-ridden shirts you have on now anyway.

Everyone Belongs,

Paul

 

Mo’ Money

About three weeks ago my wife came home from the grocery store and freaked me out! She told me what the grocery bill was before she employed her coupon strategy. It was a much bigger number than I was used to hearing. She always saves a criminal amount of money at the grocery store, but I immediately thought, ‘There’s no way she saved enough to make up for that kind of damage.” I was wrong. My wife had walked out of a grocery store saving 75% of her original total.

It is becoming a bit ordinary at our house for her to come home having saved triple digits. That’s right, $100 or more. I’m a very proud husband, but not of just the numbers she puts up week after week. You can find plenty of people that have coupon strategies (all inferior to this one of course) What I am most proud of is the heart of why she does this.

Angela and her friend (and now business partner)  Dana Reagan started Clipsy Chicks around a year ago in a home. They had been couponing and sharing notes, and some friends invited them to come share what they had learned with other ladies. They put it in the form of a presentation, targeted at the women in the room, and they were a hit. Just by word of mouth and a series of invitations they have now spoken more than 40 times to hundreds of women in churches, business, and retreat centers. It’s just been word of mouth, because they are just that good, and because what they are teaching works.

They had two things at the heart of this that they really wanted women to understand. Whether or not they are talking to women who are Christ-followers this is part of the message you will get:

  • This is about stewardship. There is no reason to blow money at the grocery store that can be saved. You can carve money (lots of it) out of your budget right now. Think about your monthly grocery bill. Do you have any idea how much you spend? Whatever it is, cut it in half (at least). Now, what would you do with that much more money in your pocket every month without working a single extra hour outside the home?
  • Anybody can do this. Both Angela and Dana have teacher’s hearts. They want to see everyone that they encounter have success. They have created a system of shopping and saving that is easy to mimic, along with tools that you can use to start saving money right away.

On Thursday night, March 31st at 7:00pm (that’s this week by the way) the Clipsy Chicks will be at West Ridge Church dropping some knowledge that you can use right away. You are welcome to come, but it would be even better if you registered in advance. You can click here to do that.

Everyone Belongs,

Paul

Not Just Another Sports Movie

Five years and one month ago our community was rocked by the death of a young man named Luke Abbate. He was a talented high school athlete who was admired and loved by people throughout this part of the Metro Atlanta community. To be honest, I did not have the opportunity to get to know this guy, but his life and untimely death made an impact on tons of people who did not get to know him, and now it can impact yours.

A movie has been made to tell the story of how Luke’s family dealt with his death, and how sharing his legacy impacted thousands of people. It’s called The 5th Quarter and it premieres in the Southeast this weekend.

From an entertainment stand point, it’s hard to beat a triumphant sports movie. Of course, this is not just another sports movie. It’s an incredible true story of life, death, grief, choosing to fight through and finding greatness in a way you never expected. You need to see it, and so do all of your friends. If it’s not playing at a theater near you, make a phone call and ask for it. If it is playing in your general vicinity, go see it. The more people who see it in limited release, the better. That could lead to millions more being impacted later on. Have a look at the trailer and share it with others.

 

Everyone Belongs,

Paul

Invisible Gospel

I’ve just spent some time with Compassion Int’l in Ecuador. Our church connects with Compassion in Burkina Faso. Compassion has been in Ecuador for over thirty years. They have more programs that just the Child Sponsorship program that most people are familiar with. They also have some tremendous things going on in the area of Leadership Development among college students, and Child Survival programs among pregnant mothers and infants.

One of the things that really resonates with me is that two of these three programs are run completely through the Local Church, and the people of Ecuador don’t really anything about Compassion. This is true in other countries Compassion works in as well. A child sponsored by someone in the States comes to a church for the program they get to participate in. A mother getting assistance in caring for her infant or toddler is getting that help from a volunteer at the church that has been trained by Compassion. Medicine, food, tutoring, all of those things happen through the local church. For the most part Compassion is Invisible. There are no signs on the churches. The group I was with noticed that they didn’t have a sign outside their main office.

Another really critical piece is that being a Christ-follower is not a prerequisite for being a part of a Compassion program. These programs are set up to spread the gospel, not to wall in it.

This is a great word for faith-based non-profits. I direct a couple and try to adopt these same ideas whenever possible. Take for instance, the Community Makeover. When a church goes and works at a school or does a repair on a home as part of this weekend, I don’t want the volunteers to say we are here from Engage Atlanta. I want the volunteers to say we are here from (Insert Local Church Name), and build relationships that might bring that person back to their church. The local church is God’s choice to reach out and make disciples. The non-profit can provide tools, and perhaps the vehicle, but it has to point people back to the local church.

Compassion is bringing 10′s of thousands of people into church buildings all over the world, and they are invisible. They are not concerned about credit or accolades, and God is providing for them to make some amazing things happen.

You can go here to find out more about how your church can be involved in the Community Makeover, or click this graphic to find out more about sponsoring a child.

Sponsor a Child in Jesus Name with Compassion

Help a Child

 

Everyone Belongs,

Paul

 

For The Least Of These

The season of Lent is not only a time to give up something that causes you to remember the sacrifice of Christ, one of the great traditions of this time is giving to the poor. Jesus performed miracles that met needs that a person could not meet on their own. You don’t have to be able to walk on water to be like Jesus in this way.

I’m spending some time with Compassion International this week in Ecuador. Earlier this week, I had the opportunity to do a home visit where a family was receiving the benefits of Compassion’s Child Survival program. In 2003 Compassion started piloting this program that is focused on raising mortality rates by working with moms who have children under the age of 4. At age four or five they can go into the Child Sponsorship program that more people are familiar with.

So we are at this little house and the volunteer from Compassion is supposed to be working on motor skills with a two month old little girl. The problem is that this two month old has locked eyes with me and no matter how many toys are waived in her face she is not responding to them. This little girl is focused! She is staring me down for what seemed to be ten minutes. Probably wasn’t that long, but at least a small portion of her motor skills testing became me making some movement across the room so that her eyes would follow me.

There is no telling whose gift is providing aid for this family. They have five children, and are struggling for everything they get. Our crew had brought with us a couple bags of groceries. The mother’s humble, but gracious reaction, and her children’s enthusiasm communicated more than a hundred thank you’s

To sponsor a child through Compassion click the graphic below, or to the Child Survival Program, you can go here.

Sponsor a Child in Jesus Name with Compassion

Save Children

Everyone Belongs,

Paul

 

Love Will Win

Last week the Christian blogosphere was set on fire by a video that Pastor Rob Bell put together to promote his new book, Love Wins. You’ve got to hand it to the guy. He knows how to get people talking. There is a lot of anticipation about the book especially from his critics. I have no idea what he is going to say, or what questions he might raise.

Over the weekend a storm went through Louisiana and spawned a few tornados. Dozens of people died. One story was told of a young mom who died shielding a child from a tree that fell through her home and on her. The child survived. Dozens more lost their homes in those storms. So, who sinned? Whose fault is it?

In the churches that I was raised in whenever a hurricane went through an area bringing destruction, there was always an explanation from someone inside the church for why bad things happened. They would say things like, ‘Did you know prostitution is rampant in that city?’, or ‘Did you know that dozens of stores that sold pornography were destroyed in that one’. Homosexuals with AIDS, Columbian Drug Lords, Vulcans, Trolls, and any one else who had chose to follow the dark side of the force were all responsible at one time or another. I never heard a Senior Pastor say that, but I was never once gathered to pray for the destruction left by wars or storms or tragedy. Never once was I asked to pray for salvation. One thing you can say for the Pharisees, they love their accusations. They really do make great critics!

There was a moment in Jesus ministry (John 9) where he passed by a, blind man, and the disciples asked a question,  ’Who sinned this man or their parents?

Jesus answered “It was not that this man sinned, or his parents, but that the works of God might be displayed in him.”

God’s power and glory are always on display. Every work that He does, and everything that He allows is for a greater good that we cannot understand. I never want to be caught in a place where I am looking at a circumstance and judging others or sending them to hell.

I believe in a God that is not willing that any should perish. That He is relentlessly carrying out His plan for the redemption of all mankind, and that He is looking for those who would make His mission, their mission. I believe in a God that has conquered sin and death and because of that one day He will make everything new, so that He can live with His people the way He originally intended. He will one day get all the glory that is already rightfully His.

I guess you could say, I believe Love Will Win.

Everyone Belongs,

Paul

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