Today is my 12 year Wedding Anniversary. I am married to the most amazing woman on the planet. We have known each other since middle school, dated in high school, had some time a part, and fell madly in love at the end of college. There is so much I could say about Angela as a person and what she means to me, but I thought I would share something I’ve learned.
Though we have a ton in common, Angela and I are different people. I’m more serious and subdued, she is more lively and energetic. She brings the spice and the funk to our marriage. It is easier for her to be spontaneous. She loves having impromptu ‘dance parties’ where she cranks up the music and invites the boys to dance along. She has a gift for the added details in life that make things special. I only think I’ve cleaned the house. She comes behind me and makes things shine.
We are at our best when we are helping each other be successful at the things we are gifted to do. We don’t try to turn the other person into something they are not. We are terrific compliments to each other in personality, talents, and spiritual gifts.
I don’t make the bed in the morning, not because I’m a lazy husband, but when she does, it looks like it has been made! She doesn’t make my grits in the morning. It’s not because she’s a lousy cook (she’s great!), but because God has gifted me to create a heavenly bowl of buttery goodness on a level that no one can rival.
We are better, more complete people because God brought us together. I thank him every day for my amazing wife.
Everyone Belongs,
Paul